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Masterclass module 1

Discover endless choices for you to try with your partner, now in a small group training program. 
 

YES YOU CAN !

8 weeks of intensive training, 2.5 hours each week starting from 22th September until 11th December 2025

Details and book

serve@mistress-alexandra.com

+30 6946520003

 

Whatever you're a novice or experienced, couple or single, woman, male or non binary, Kink is a deeply personal experience, with each individual harboring unique desires and boundaries.

With trust and vulnerability at the core of kink, having a coach by your side can prove to be an invaluable investment for enhancing your experience.

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HOW ?

Indulging in kink exploration within our intimate lives can ignite a whole new level of excitement and fulfillment. However, navigating this uncharted territory alone can be daunting.

Life's obstacles may impede our journey towards growth, but seeking guidance from a knowledgeable source can lead us towards success.

Kink is a deeply personal experience, with each individual harboring unique desires and boundaries. From subtle power dynamics to indulgences in toys and techniques, the spectrum of desires varies greatly. For those already immersed in the world of kink, but yearning to delve even deeper into their desires while maintaining safety and consent, I offer practical advice and support based on my years as a professional dominatrix and BDSM educator.

My expertise ranges from teaching how to wield a whip with precision to helping navigate the delicate balance between pleasure and pain.

With trust and vulnerability at the core of kink, having a coach by your side can prove to be an invaluable investment for enhancing your experience.

As a firm believer in the deep rewards and benefits that kink offers beyond just sexual pleasure, I am dedicated to guiding others through any challenges they may face on their journey.

Let me help you unlock the mind-blowing, life-changing potential of kink sexuality with my seasoned coaching skills and understanding of this unique world.

​Your future fun time awaits for you!

MODULE 1: The Initiation - Awaken Your Dominant Instinct
Basic Level | 8 Weeks | 2.5h/week
22th October to 11th December

Week 1: Foundations of Power Exchange

Theory & Awareness

Understanding D/s roles and structures

Consent, negotiation, and boundaries

Dominant identity: sensual, sadistic, nurturing, commanding

Dominant shadow work: owning your dark desires without guilt

Meeting your inner Dominant — guided journaling: “What kind of power do I hold?”

Leadership vs. cruelty — the ethics of Domination


Skills in Practice

Power stance, eye contact, and voice tone drills

Boundary setting practice (roleplay with “yes,” “no,” and “maybe”)

Energy awareness: entering a room as a Dominant

Week 2: Erotic Authority & Inner Confidence

Theory & Awareness

How dominance feels vs. how it looks

Overcoming imposter syndrome and shame for both you and your submissive

Body language and embodied confidence

Submissive psychology 101

Boundaries vs. control vs. emotional connection

Love languages and kink communication

Understanding your own kink language

Giving vs receiving as dominant

Adapting dominance to submissive archetypes

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Breathwork to center your energy

Voice modulation: tone, pacing, command styles

Confidence circle: speaking as a Domme to a group

Guided mirroring exercise: how your presence is perceived

Week 3: Rituals, Commands & Protocols

Theory & Awareness

Creating meaningful rituals (morning, greeting, posture, service)

Verbal Domination archetypes: the Teacher, the Queen, the Seductress

Training through repetition: posture, position, daily tasks

Erotic polarity and dominant presence

Masculine/feminine energy: cultivating erotic tension

Emotional intelligence and attachment styles in D/s

Emotional self-regulation

Boundaries that don't sabotage connection

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Design and perform a simple obedience ritual

Giving clear verbal commands — tone and clarity drills

Creating your first protocol sheet (with greetings, speech rules, etc.)

Week 4: Tools of Domination – Part I

Theory & Awareness

Introduction to basic tools: floggers, paddles, cuffs, collars

Sensual vs. disciplinary intentions

Anatomy for safe play

Hygiene, cleaning, and handling tools respectfully

Submissive psychology: emotional validation vs. spoiling

Rituals of emotional intimacy without breaking power

Listening and responding to kink communication styles

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Holding and swinging a flogger (on a pillow or dummy)

Using cuffs and restraints correctly and safely

Practicing scene setup: where tools go, how to prepare

Optional: beginner-level foot domination demo & discussion

Week 5: Sensory & Psychological Control

Theory & Awareness

Power of anticipation and deprivation

How the senses link to control

Psychological impact of silence, breath, stillness

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Use of blindfolds, sound muffling, feather touch

Creating a 5-minute sensory play scene

Pausing, pacing, and breathing with intention

Guided micro-control scene: instructing movement or speech

Week 6: Building Your First Scene

Theory & Awareness

Structure of a scene: beginning, escalation, climax, aftercare

Setting the tone: lighting, scent, sound, language

Intro to roleplay: archetypes and immersive flow

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Scene outline worksheet creation

Writing and delivering a “scene invitation” or task message

Practice setting up a basic roleplay with props, tone, and outfit

Week 7: Real-Time Practice

Theory & Awareness

Integrating learned skills into embodied presence

Leadership under observation

Reflective listening and constructive feedback

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Deliver a short ritual or training scene to a peer or group

Group feedback and coaching circle

Reflection journaling: “Where do I feel strongest? What’s next?”

Week 8: Closing Ritual + Q&A on Next Steps

Theory & Awareness

Completion ritual: anchoring your Dominant identity

How to continue your journey (with or without a submissive)

Ethics and integrity in long-term power dynamics

🛠️ Skills in Practice

Each participant delivers a short Dominant affirmation or gesture

Power posture graduation circle

Optional: Q&A on your dominant path, intermediate module intro

Certificate of Completion

Play Party for Graduates

Skills you will learn in this BASIC TIER
For beginners. Focused on consent, control, sensual dominance, and playful training.


🔹 Physical & Sensory Play

    Light bondage (cuffs, scarves, rope)

    Blindfolding

    Light spanking, over-the-knee play

    Feather play / sensory teasing

    Collar training basics

    Power poses and body language

    Foot worship (non-humiliating)

    Bootlicking as reverence

    Temperature play (ice, warm oil)

🔸 Sensual & Discipline Tools

    Impact play (floggers, paddles, canes) with technique

    Spitting, slapping (light facial)

    Face-sitting (domination, control)

    Tease & denial (edging, countdowns)

    Humiliation play (verbal and positional)

    Task-based control (homework, anxiety tasks)

    Strapon (with intro consent talk)

    Domme-led orgasm control / chastity training

    Feminization/sissy play (light)

🔹 Psychological Foundations

    Consent and negotiation

    Understanding Dom/sub archetypes

    Daily rituals (kneeling, greetings)

    Task assignment (chores, journaling)

    Introduction to submission mindsets

    Voice tone and verbal authority basics

    Submissive journaling and self-awareness

    Learning to say "no" with confidence (for Dommes)

🔹 FemDom Etiquette & Lifestyle

    Ritual dressing (undressing, brushing hair)

    Service positions (kneel, stand, present)

    Holding space and aftercare

    Structured punishment: writing, silence

    Slave reports (daily thoughts, obedience rating)

    Posture training

16+

YEARS OF EXPERIENCE

2200

SQUARE METERS DUNGEON

40+

INDIVIDUAL SUCCESSFUL CLASSES

POSSIBILITIES FOR YOU !

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